It is easy to get the baggage of a past relationship right into a new one but it is not the only option that is available. When you take the time for proper healing after being cheated on, it can actually strengthen the way you might relate to yourself and to some new romantic partners. You experienced some worst kind of betrayal imaginable and came out of the other side, which shall strength and should not go unacknowledged. And in the right relationship, it will not work well. Honesty is the only value We do not want the white lies or sugar-coated sentiments. We want some cold, hard truth as we do not want to find ourselves blind sighted later on. If there is a problem in the relationship, we are always going for wanting to address it directly. We know that trust gets built as a team and we want to get it build on a foundation of honesty and some open communication. Know how to trust It is completely easy for assuming that anyone that has been cheated on must have some trust issues with all future partners but it is usually the opposite of the truth. It is being seen that firsthand how quickly a lack of trust can deteriorate a relationship and no one wants to go down that road again. If he is with you, it is because something about you made them feel secure enough to place our trust in you. And he is not interested in second-guessing that trusting unnecessarily. Invest in the health of the relationship There is never a good excuse for cheating but it is understood that when emotional distance evolves between two partners, things tend to go downhill as soon as possible. People make a conscious effort for ensuring that they are on the same page with some new partners and that the relationship which is healthy and happy for all parties involved. Make family and friends a priority. Everyone loves you and they want to spend time with you but were not the type of throwing family and friends out the window as soon as people get into a new relationship. When the last relationship fell apart, they were the people that picked us up off the floor and helped to get back on feet. They were the ones that help in reminding what trust and love truly look like. Know true strength Everyone has been through the worst kind of breakup imaginable one that made them question not only with ex-partner but our own self-image. Getting cheated on messes with the mind, but it ultimately teaches you an incredible form of self-reliance.